Friday, November 20, 2015

Small penises

I have a couple of names for small penises that this site does not have on theirs: Here they are, nippledick, microcock, millimeter peter. http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Small+Penis+Humiliation

Sunday, November 15, 2015

I Figured It Out

I figured out how to do the HTML code for My niteflirt.com account. Check Me out under BDSM MISTRESSJKITTY. https://www.niteflirt.com/listings/show/9962283-Miss-J-s-Lair.

Wednesday, November 11, 2015

It Isn't Cute

Honestly guys it isn't cute contacting a Mistress with a "hey sexy" or "what's up". I like intelligent people who know how to speak and actually know how to speak to a Female. Just because you are a sub doesn't mean you have to be an idiot. I also see it as a sign of disrespect when you do not capitalize My name when contacting Me. I wouldn't say I am high protocol but some things I just won't put up with. So boys if you are contacting Me know how to speak to Me or get ignored.

Tuesday, November 10, 2015

WishList

I love clothing, shoes, sneakers and equipment but fyi I like the books especially Lies My Teacher Told Me and A People's History of the United States ;) I also tried to do the HTML coding I have learned so this link can just be clicked instead of copied and pasted but I was not able to, but I will figure it out :) https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/?ie=UTF8&cid=A39U85KTC4AJEC

Professionals

http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2014/10/07/adrianna-taylor-story-of-control_n_5943876.html

Sunday, November 1, 2015

I wasn't going to blog again today but this is an excellent article

http://www.mistress-evilyne.com/dominatrix/the-difference-between-a-domme-and-a-cunt/

I thought this was an interesting article

http://therumpus.net/2014/08/lessons-i-learned-as-a-dominatrix-10-things-that-dont-exist/

Wednesday, October 28, 2015

It Has Been Awhile

It has been awhile and this is why, I am learning coding to make websites which is easier than I thought it was. Anyway, don't just sit there like idiots jerking your tiny dicks and think you can't learn something new or that you have learned everything. Every day is a chance to learn something new. Khan Academy gives free coding classes and many other classes. Oh yes, I am a smart bitch ;) https://www.khanacademy.org/

Tuesday, October 6, 2015

Tickle Torture

I had 2 tickle torture session a few weeks ago with the same person and it was me who was tickled. I let him bind my ankles and wrists and he mainly tickled my feet with a variety of things. I actually liked being in the position of being bound because I think a Domme should know how her subs feel in that position. Anyway both sessions were great, the man a gentleman and I would do it again.

Saturday, October 3, 2015

Obviously

There are people that obviously do not know how to read or just show total disregard to the rules of calling Me. My website clearly states that I will not answer calls from private numbers. I understand the need for discretion, but there has to be trust in a Domme/sub relationship and if you cannot call Me with a number then too bad, I will not answer your call. If you are contacting Me through a work email in which you could be found out, then that is your fault, not Mine. If other people have access to your email or your phone that you are contacting Me with, then that is also your problem if something happens. If you call Me and tell Me that there are only certain times you can accept calls or email from Me that is fine and I will respect that, otherwise you are shit out of luck. You boys need to handle your business and I will handle Mine. If any of you have problems with this then refer to My rules on My website and if you still have a problem then do not bother contacting Me and wasting My time. Remember you are contacting Me for something that I provide and if I feel as though you do not respect that I am under no obligation to respect you or your feelings or to do a damn thing for you :) I have become very adept at smelling bullshit from miles away so as I said before don't bother wasting My time.

Wednesday, September 16, 2015

Thursday, September 10, 2015

Saturday, September 5, 2015

Wednesday, September 2, 2015

All Choked Up

I thought it was hilarious when My subpuppy choked on the caviar ;)

Tuesday, August 25, 2015

Ballbusted

That young man had his balls seriously busted by Mistress J and Lady Luella last night. He might feel that pain for awhile and when the pain fades away he will know it is time to see Us again ;-P

Thursday, August 20, 2015

I Am Game For A Good Interrogation Scene

http://bdsm-sexperts.blogspot.com/2008/11/doing-interrogation-scene-right.html

Thursday, August 13, 2015

Double Domme

Double sessions with Mistress J and Lady Luella. Double the fun, but not for the faint of heart :-P

Monday, August 10, 2015

Hmmmmm I wouldn't trust their scientists

http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2015/08/09/coca-cola-funds-scientists-who-shift-blame-for-obesity-away-from-bad-diets/?_r=0 I

Friday, July 31, 2015

sub puppy

My little sub puppy enjoyed his caviar and champagne today :)

Tuesday, July 28, 2015

Psychology of BDSM

http://www.ipgcounseling.com/sites/ipgcounseling.com/files/content/pdf/3psychology_bdsm.pdf

Wednesday, July 22, 2015

Thursday, July 16, 2015

Sunday, July 12, 2015

Saturday, July 11, 2015

My Birthday is July 26th and here are some things that I want

I prefer these in black http://www.shoedazzle.com/products/AVAH-BS1513046-0001?psrc=springshop Black as well http://www.shoedazzle.com/products/LESLEY-BS1512667-2830?psrc=springshop I like orange http://www.shoedazzle.com/products/ILLUMA-DA1512707-8010?psrc=springshop Pink is always nice especially with a nice black dress http://www.shoedazzle.com/products/ALEGRA-DA1512636-9010?psrc=springshop I would definitely rock these plus a thigh-high pair would be great ;) http://www.shoedazzle.com/products/DIONNA-0127?psrc=shop_shoes_boots Hmmm at first I didn't like them but now I think I do like them http://www.shoedazzle.com/products/FRANA-202-000106-0100?psrc=shop_shoes_boots http://www.shoedazzle.com/products/ASHLY-004-000456-0100?psrc=shop_shoes_boots http://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=32354 http://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=11878 size 12 http://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=13922 size 12 http://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=33750

Facebook

www.facebook.com/people/Kat-Domina/100009286711041

Wednesday, July 8, 2015

Cupping

http://www.bdsm-education.com/cupping.htm www.facebook.com/CuppingHealth?fref=ts

Friday, July 3, 2015

Thursday, July 2, 2015

Saturday, June 27, 2015

Wednesday, June 24, 2015

I Love This Quote

"So avoid using the word 'very' it's lazy. A man is not very tired, he is exhausted. Don't use very sad, use morose. Language was invented for one reason, boys- to woo women- and, in that endeavor, laziness will not do."

Sunday, June 21, 2015

Friday, June 19, 2015

Thursday, June 18, 2015

Feet Kitty

I tried to turn the pic around but to no avail but this kitty loves to lie by my feet. A male cat of course ;) 

Tuesday, June 16, 2015

I Wanted To Know More

I know what quantum physics is, but I wanted to know a bit more. http://www.physicsoftheuniverse.com/topics_quantum.html

Monday, June 15, 2015

Interesting

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/unique-everybody-else/201307/bdsm-personality-and-mental-health

Friday, June 12, 2015

Conversing with a Mistress

If you are contacting a Mistress via email, text or phone call and using words like "hey baby", "hey sexy" or "what up," it is rude, is a telltale sign of your age and you will probably never get a response from that Mistress or She will have a few choice words for you because of your disrespectful mouth.

Wednesday, June 10, 2015

How to not be an asshole

I think this blog goes along well with those who are still calling my phone, although it is stated in clear English that I am in an area right now where I cannot receive or send texts or receive or make phone calls, and they still call my phone. I can, however, receive and send emails. Anyway for you guys, I think you should read this blog on how to not be an asshole. Have a great night. http://www.rayelletianne.blogspot.com/2015/06/how-to-not-be-asshole.html?m=1

Monday, June 8, 2015

BDSM Hypnosis

http://bdsmhypnosis.blogspot.com/ As soon as I get back on my game with the hypnosis I will be incorporating this into my sessions for any willing participants. If you do session with me it also nice to have some willing guinea pig subbies to help me with my practice.

Tens Unit

I just got a nice little tens unit and had a great time using it on one of my subs ;-P

Wednesday, June 3, 2015

Mercury has been in retrograde since May 18th and Mercury will remain in retrograde until June 11th. I do believe this has some bearing on things going on in our lives right now. This is a good read. http://www.astrologyzone.com/forecasts/mercury.html

Saturday, May 30, 2015

Wicked Playground

I will be fashionably late the BDSM event at the Wicked Playground. I wonder what kind kinkiness is going on there tonight :-P

Wednesday, May 27, 2015

“Fear can be a potent aphrodisiac.” ― Kele Moon, Beyond Eden

Monday, May 25, 2015

Otk Spanking Flogging Whipping Caning Paddling

Sometimes a good old fashioned spanking is in order for some naughty boys. Sometimes a more suitable punishment, depending on the crime, might be a flogging, whipping, caning or a paddling. After I am finished with you, every time you sit down, lean back against something or look in the mirror you will remember me. When the sting has worn off after a few days, you will be restless, thinking about your next session with me ;-P

Tuesday, May 19, 2015

Attitude

I started off as a proDomme with a pair of stockings to bind the wrists and ankles, a wooden spoon to spank and a pair of panties which were used as a gag. I did and do well because of my attitude and love of what I do. Of course using my equipment is fun but the equipment alone does not necessarily make a great Domme.

Friday, May 8, 2015

Sounding

My lovely friend and submissive just bought me a beautiful set of sounds :) :) This is also a good article about sounding http://barkingshaman.com/tag/bdsm/

Monday, April 27, 2015

Real Domme

Loved your site as well! by the way "My unexampled inventiveness, love of what I do and My attitude to dominate the male species keeps them coming back for more." ...I fucking LOVE that! So simple yet so direct. Why is that so difficult to understand for most?? Fucking wankers. Between that and your 'Rule #1'.. I think you've got it down boss! :) I think every real Domme on CM should have that on their profiles! Going to make all my pets memorize that immediately! This lovely compliment is from my Mistress friend http://www.queenmona.com

Sunday, April 26, 2015

Monday

Tomorrow is Monday so let's have some kinky BDSM fun ;-)

Friday, April 24, 2015

Darling friend/submissive

Going to my darling friend and submissive's house for a bit tomorrow. Hopefully I can have some time in the sun on his lovely property before I have to come back home and get ready for the event. Oh and let's not forget playtime with my darling friend/submissive ;-P

BDSM EVENT SATURDAY APRIL 25TH

Ms. Lady will be hosting a BDSM event at the Wicked Playground tomorrow night at 8p-12am. If you want more information contact me through my website mistressj0817.wix.com/mjkitty

Photos and Fun

Yesterday was the photo shoot with 3 beautiful and awesome Mistresses, Ms.Lady who was hosting the shoot, Mistress Lydia and new to the scene Mistress Saigon. I dislike having my pics taken but it was definitely a fun time ;-P

Wednesday, April 22, 2015

Photo shoot

Photo shoot tomorrow at the Wicked Playground. This should be interesting. I dislike My picture being taken, but I suppose it is a necessary evil ;-)

Thursday, April 16, 2015

Safe, Sane, Private and Consensual

Every BDSM act that I perform is safe and I am a very sane person. That might sound funny considering to many people BDSM isn't safe and the person performing these acts must be crazy. Every BDSM act I perform is consensual between both parties, the Domme and submissive. The playspace is a private place where measures are taken to secure a subs privacy.

Tuesday, April 14, 2015

Know it All

There is always something new to learn in the BDSM world and I do think that a great Domme should never think She knows it all.

Monday, April 6, 2015

Therapy

A Domme who knows what she is doing and understands the psychology of BDSM will sometimes be referred to as a sub's therapist or they compare a session with you to being like a day at the spa.

Friday, April 3, 2015

SO WHAT!!

I realize that in this business there are many fakes, Dommes and subs alike. I also realize that some people will like me some won't and SO WHAT!!

Safewords

I very rarely use safewords. I just pay attention to my subs.

Tuesday, March 31, 2015

My Equipment

Most of my equipment was made for me by a wonderful submissive of mine. It brings me joy to use my equipment that was especially made for me but my equipment has never made me a Domme. What has made me a great Domme is my attitude and the love of the art of BDSM.

Thursday, March 12, 2015

BDSM EVENT

Ms. Lady will be hosting a BDSM event at the Wicked Playground on March 21, 2015. Contact my website for more information mjkitty0817.wix.com/mjkitty

Sunday, March 1, 2015

Older Dommes vs. younger Dommes

From what I have learned over the years, older men, especially those who have been in the lifestyle for a long time, prefer to go to an older Dominatrix. I think with age men think a Domme has more experience. 

Thursday, February 26, 2015

50 shades of garbage



I do what I do because I love it

I don't do this because I hate men, quite the contrary, although men can be complete shits at times that need lots of discipline.

Sunday, February 22, 2015

ProDomme

ProDomming isn't prostitution and honestly anyone asking for more than that when contacting you obviously has no clue what a Domme does. ProDomming isn't prostitution or stripping. It is a mixture of performance art and sexual stimulation. A Domme is in a position of power which is different from a stripper or escort. 

Tuesday, February 17, 2015

Posers

Seems as though more women are becoming Dommes especially strippers and escorts. I cannot tell you how many times I have had complaints from clients about these girls posing as Dommes and the only equipment they have is a flogger and maybe a hairbrush.